Dorcas (adorable 4 year old girl who lives in my neighborhood): How are you?
Me: Nzuri sana, na wewe? (Very well, and you?)
Dorcas: I’m fine!
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Dorcas and me. |
This is a conversation I have at least once a day not only with little Dorcas but also with Kenyan men and women of all ages. Despite, or perhaps because of, the fact that those are the only 5 words that Dorcas knows, she insists upon speaking Swahili to me. At first this confused me. She could barely speak any English but yet insisted upon using the tiny bit of English she knows to communicate with the mzungu who walks down the street every day. But then I realized that I was in a very similar situation. I know very little Swahili, relative to how much English many Kenyans know, but I still great people on the streets with the classic Swahili greetings. I do it partly to show respect, to show that I didn’t land here two days ago staying at a fancy hotel on vacation, but rather that I have actually taken time to start to learn the local language. But I also do it because I am genuinely interested in the Kenyan culture, a culture there is a lot to learn about, and I feel that I can get a better sense of it by at least trying to communicate in the local language.
And that’s when I realized that Dorcas and I aren’t that different after all. I came to Kenya two months ago to work for a microfinance institution, to meet new people, and to experience a new culture. I hadn’t really thought about the cultural exchange, the fact that Dorcas was also interested in my culture. After the many days of walking by her house we began to talk in a combination of broken English, broken Swahili, and neighbors who spoke a good bit of both languages. After she got over staring at my skin and laughing at the hair on my legs (strange concept for many Kenyans), we talked about each other’s families and lives.
I went to church with my host mom my first Sunday in Kakamega and it was quite an experience for me, attending a service in Swahili that lasted four hours in a building made of iron sheets in the middle of a field. While trying to take in whatever I could I also went up to the front of the church, faced the pews, and introduced myself using the little Swahili I knew. But what I was too oblivious to notice was that the congregation was incredibly intrigued by my presence there. I didn’t really get a grasp of this interest until a few weeks later when my host mom told me about some of the conversations she had been having with some of her neighbors. Ever since they saw me with her at church, people started to ask what it was like to live with a mzungu. What does he eat? How do you take care of him? How does he sleep? How do you afford all the amenities he requires? How do you communicate with him? I was happy to hear that my host mom had responded that I was no different from living with one of her own children. I eat ugali, I take bucket showers, I help do the dishes and cook food, I feed the dogs, I require no extra special treatment.
Thinking back on it, it makes sense that many people on the outskirts of Kakamega have no idea what mzungus are like. But it was a bit surprising to hear all of the misconceptions many people have about white people. At the same time, many people in the US have incredibly skewed perceptions about much of Africa. The fact that people so often refer to “Africa” instead of individual African countries is just the beginning of the lacking understanding of the varied cultures. Tanzania neighbors Kenya but Kenyans stick out like sore thumbs in Tanzania because of the drastic differences in pace of life, priorities, and ways of living. Few Americans would guess that there are well stocked supermarkets not that different from Wal-Mart in small towns in Kenya, I know I wouldn’t have before this trip!
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One of the many isles of Nakumat, the supermarket a 10 minute walk away from my house. |
Many Kenyans think that there is free money constantly being handed out to anyone who wants it in the US and many Americans believe that everyone in places such as Kenya lives in extreme poverty. The truth is that there is a wide range of living conditions in both countries and that there are a lot of misconceptions that need to be cleared up. I hope you have gotten a tiny glimpse into what my time in Kenya has been like but if you ever get the chance, I highly recommend traveling to Kenya someday to see for yourself.
Tomorrow is my last day at work and then I’m off to Sydney on Friday. I’m planning on putting together a brief photo post tomorrow to wrap up my time working for Village Enterprise so keep an eye out for it. My time here has flown by but I have had such a great experience I can’t imagine a better way to spend my summer.